reality of the military

well.. the reality is I just got put on deployment stand by today. I had all the qualifying factors to deploy. The best part is they are not telling me any information.. when, where, how long nothing. Thats all kind of important when im planning a WEDDING! so pretty much i might waste all this money in deposits at places if i get deployed before may or i could have my lovely wedding and then get deployed after. i just wish I knew should i keep planing or post pone the wedding… ah the military.